NEGATIVE DISRUPTIVE CRITICISM

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NEGATING DISRUPTIVE CRITICISM 


Authorizing those who are uninformed about your profession to criticize your choice of career will do nothing to you but cripple your morale and tempo to accelerate to the peak of your chosen career. The anguish that is capable of destroying you and your career is acknowledging criticism from people who are unsophisticated about the career path you have chosen. 


Criticisms are pleasant as well as a tool that can significantly culminate your achievements in any career if you take critique from qualified people only. It's very good to be open to criticism but careful selection of whom you are taking the criticism from is more essential. Regardless, you need to differentiate between constructive criticism and disruptive criticism. Most critiques are obnoxious, distracting, and appalling. 


What audacity will an entrepreneur have to condemn a student pursuing a higher degree to opt out of a business claiming those degrees are useless just because he can't endure the rigor of academic activities? 

And what is the momentum of the correlation between a musician who knows nothing about creative writing and condemning a budding writer to quit because his contents are not captivating? 


Or even a lawyer criticizing a statistician or mathematician just because he doesn't find it easy to demystify mathematical illustrations. Imagine how people always ignorantly and arrogantly criticize some things they have no knowledge about or what they are not capable of doing. 


However, this is more reason why you need professionals and qualified people to choose a career for you and criticize your work. Resist feeling awkward or nasty when some people don't encourage what you do or criticize you. Paradoxically, the worst you will do yourself is to dance to the tune of their criticism. 

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Hence, being open to criticism is good but filtering the critiques and the critics before an acknowledgment is very crucial.

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Iranloye Sofiu Taiye

⁣©OPTIMISM MIRROR

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